(Not to be confused with Anti-Kink Wank.)

In early February 2012, a nonny started the following thread:

I suspect it's thoughtlessness, rather than deliberate, but it's really a shame that the meme, which is generally so accepting of non-mainstream kinks, should be so judgy about those of us who like what a more eloquent anon that me described as “nonviolent, no-repercussions, unrealistic dubcon”

Discussion was fairly reasonable until another nonny changed the thread title to “here goes the whining again…” and wrote:

Meme was never meant to be a safe haven, where nobody's feelings get hurt. People here argue about things all the time.

I seriously don't get that whole “omg, meme is being mean, I thought better of you!” thing that keeps popping up recently.

Things got wanky from thereon in. Someone replied to the title-changing nonny:

I'm glad you said it, so I didn't have to. When I read the original post, my gut reaction was just two words–“Tough titty.” That sort of over sensitive, oh poor me stuff makes me clench my jaw. The world is a very big place, with all kinds of different people in it. Some of them are going to find what you like disgusting, wrong, etc. Growing a thicker hide is probably a good idea for everyone.

Which elicited the following response: “Funnily enough, this is exactly what my uncle says to me when I complain about homophobia.”

(Note: This was not the same wank as BDSM Con Wank.)