June 15, 2013: A nonny asked what makes breathplay hot to its practitioners. Before long, someone replied, “The possibility of being murdered.”

Someone else pleaded that meme not even joke about this, and a (self-declared) NA replied, “This sounds a little too much like kinkshaming.” The anon they'd responded to said they thought the previous comment had “sounded pretty wanky to me.” Another commenter asked, “I'm not the OP so I can't say what they meant but many of us here are talking about fiction, right?” Whereupon the OP of the subthread wrote, “I am the OP and it's just not fiction,”, then clarified: “[Y]es, I would really want to be murdered.”

Things went downhill from there, especially after it was asked rather disingenuously why nonnies drew a line at this when they didn't at things like necrophilia and cannibalism.