| **Jan. 26, 2014**: PIV, handjobs, or intercrural? ♥ Purple sparkly dildo ♥ Enemas ♥ Varying blowjob descriptions ♥ Overcoming embarrassment block ♥ Too much lead-in ♥ “Too many emotions” ♥ Noncon F/f oral | **Jan. 27, 2014**: //“Does anyone else find it more difficult to write smut the longer you write fan fiction?”// ♥ Blanking on sex positions ♥ One’s own prompts or someone else’s? ♥ Regaining momentum ♥ Mantis-verse ♥ Distracted by worldbuilding ♥ Alternative terms for “nipple” |
| **Jan. 31, 2014**: Banter/sleep getting in way of sex ♥ SSRI killing smut-writing ability ♥ Breathplay tips | **Feb. 8, 2014**: Shyness interfering w/writing ♥ Varying sentence length in sex-pollen fic ♥ Porn Battle w/o LJ ♥ Smut mojo gone ♥ //“There’s just no sexy word for asshole”// ♥ Writing physical sensations of orgasm ♥ Webcomic: writing smut |
| **Feb. 14, 2014**: Recalcitrant char in m/m/m ♥ Deciding which Porn Battle ficlets to finish | **Feb. 15, 2014**: Writing char’s first blowjob ♥ Pegging ♥ m/m/f logistics ♥ Consensual gangbang |
| **Feb. 18, 2014**: Intimacy between repressed chars embarrasses author | **Feb. 23, 2014**: //“What makes porn sound filthy to you?”// ♥ Het; man less experienced than woman ♥ “Queening stool” ♥ Varying acts & pacing ♥ kink_bingo essay on shame- vs. guilt-based punishment ♥ Advice for new smut writers ♥ Phrases & actions repeating across one’s fics ♥ Preferred POV for m/m with top/bottom roles |
| **Mar. 2, 2014**: First time writing sex dreams; M, not E, rating ♥ Judgy cat watching nonny write smut ♥ Best positions/classier terms for titfucking ♥ Appeal of dirtybadwrong followed by angst & consequences ♥ Saliva or vaginal fluids for lube in het | **Mar. 8, 2014**: Too much setup ♥ Char politeness/nerves hindering threesome ♥ Porny fic series or one multi-chapter smutfic? ♥ m/m with paraplegic char ♥ Branching out from dubcon or “big guy tops” ♥ Resources: mutual masturbation, watching partner masturbate, oral, fingering ♥ When you gross yourself out ♥ Keeping BDSM negotiation simple when one char is a novice ♥ Keeping ♀ chars IC in femsub |
| **Mar. 15, 2014**: //“Can you feel someone come inside you?”// ♥ Spanking porn turning out boring ♥ Ubiquity of negotiation in BDSM fic ♥ Safe-sex practices, appeal or lack thereof | **Mar. 16, 2014**: Deciding on intro scenario ♥ Easy to visualize, hard to write ♥ Update: writing less “big scary guy” in m/m ♥ Sounding sensations ♥ Dildo material c. WWII ♥ Better term for “name-calling” during sex |
| **Mar. 28, 2014**: Self-consciousness: writing tiny fandom’s first heavy kinkfic ♥ Semi-accidental public fingersucking ♥ Simple, mildly D/s way for A to get B off ♥ Moving from vanilla/fade-to-black to smut ♥ When your smut becomes too routine ♥ Better terms for ♀ genitalia ♥ Video links: intercrural sex ♥ How to end mostly-consensual fic in which 1 char was drugged | **Apr. 11, 2014**: Indecisive chars ♥ Somnophilia negotiations ♥ Writing blowjobs ♥ Dubcon, clothed woman/naked immobilized man ♥ Amazon limits on monster xeno |
| **Apr. 19, 2014**: A/B/O, ♂α/♀α/♀Ω, DP knotting ♥ Sex between exhausted, frightened fugitives ♥ Sex between X/Y when Z owns X ♥ Underage/adult fic nerves | **May 6, 2014**: Keeping big dicks reasonably sized (long subthread) ♥ Keeping track of limb positions ♥ First time writing dubcon riding |
| **May 13, 2014**: Rating one’s own fic ♥ Writing rough sex when chars aren’t really angry ♥ M/F relationship, multiple dicks, DP/anal ♥ F/f oral, hairy pubes ♥ Repeating kinks within same fic ♥ Writing non-explicit/less-explicit sex scenes ♥ Update: Dubcon riding | **May 21, 2014**: Preferred term for “anus” ♥ Can you feel it when someone comes in your ass? |
| **May 28, 2014**: Survey: favorite & least-favorite terms for arousal sensations ♥ Consistency in usage of “cock” or “dick” ♥ Writing blowjob from ♀ giver’s POV ♥ Amount/degree of detail in smut | **May 31, 2014**: Describing feel of nipple stim |
| **Jun. 5, 2014**: How to keep gay-chickeny argument-to-fightsex from sounding hokey ♥ Amount of historical detail in historical smut ♥ Sex when one char isn’t into it ♥ Modern slavery, owner letting friends use slaves ♥ Writing first smut, feeling blocked | **Jun. 7, 2014**: How might spankee have “earned” her spanking? ♥ What readers want in hatesex ♥ Maintaining characterization in “this was a bad idea” sex ♥ How aging would affect m/m sex after chars spent years apart |
| **Jun. 15, 2014**: Queening/facesitting | **Jun. 30, 2014**: Lesbian/ace nonny trying to write m/m ♥ Making bath/pool sex happen ♥ m/m/f threesome, first-time anal PWP, w/Skype ♥ Plot vs. porn ratio ♥ Short, fun writing exercise suggestions? ♥ Exhaustion/depression hindering post-tragedy comfort sex ♥ Complete noob wants general pointers ♥ Clandestine prison sex ♥ Too-fast pacing vs. repetitive acts or overfocus |
| **Sep. 3, 2014**: Vibrating sex toy in bondage play ♥ Writing spectacularly bad het ♥ //“Prude nonnie’s first kissing scene”// | **Feb. 14, 2015**: Making vanilla smut less generic ♥ Lesbian nonny asks what women find attractive about men |
| **Apr. 20, 2015**: m/m/m/m logistics ♥ Can woman ride man who’s sitting upright? ♥ Are fingering/handjobs enough? ♥ Sensations in pierced erogenous zones ♥ Fightsex ♥ Worldbuilding in shorter stories without verbosity or skimping on smut ♥ Keeping repressed chars IC in smut ♥ Chars w/tails ♥ Embarrassment block ♥ Can bottom feel top come in him? ♥ Pro-erotica pseuds | **Apr. 23, 2015**: Keeping track of limbs (long subthread) |
| **Apr. 26, 2015**: Building up domliness in reluctant char ♥ Sexual frat hazing of naïve boy ♥ Getting chars to fuck; tense atmosphere ♥ //“a good sex scene isn't always about great sex”// | **May 18, 2015**: Better term for “panties” ♥ m/m, experience differential, emphasizing nervousness ♥ Rough non-penetrative sex with desperation and //“intense nearly-painful physicality”// ♥ Better terms for ♀ genitals |
| **May 20, 2015**: Socking up ♥ Good tropes/kinks for antagonistic D/s ♥ Rough & pushy sugar daddy dynamic ♥ Large gangbangs ♥ Pro-erotica community venting ♥ Lube for men’s room fucking | Jun. 8, 2015: Creepy details for tender/creepy dubcon scene ♥ “Gangbangs: one at a time, or all at once?” ♥ Making phone sex not unintentionally hilarious ♥ Helping char relax enough to be penetrated |
| Jun. 10, 2015: Would anal DP hurt the penetrators? ♥ ♂ chastity device that permits orgasm ♥ Blowjob from giver’s POV ♥ First-time fluffy vanilla m/m | Jun. 28, 2015: Dom pushing novice sub’s limits; no impact play ♥ consensual mind control; kinky friends-to-lovers ♥ cunnilingus from http://fail-fandomanon.dreamwidth.org/145970.html?thread=772469554#cmt772469554♂ giver POV ♥ AIs, human-body borrowing, mindgames, sadism ♥ How het porn could inform expectations of sex w/men ♥ Kinking up sex btwn 2 slaves |
| Jul. 7, 2015: Cis/trans m/m alley sex | Jul. 12, 2015: “Cuddlefucking” ♥ Non-verbal, non-touchy-feely expressions of affection ♥ Sex-pollened human/shapeshifter dog, human POV, dog is worried ♥ Rough sex against car; size difference ♥ How injured char could noncon larger char ♥ Where to set miserable, drunken consolation sex ♥ Emetophilia question |